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Were they afraid we were planning a coup d'etat?
I spent my first summer during Columbia Law School at a firm in Philadelphia described as one of the best places in the city for black lawyers. I believed that if there was any place where I would have an equal chance at opportunities, be treated fairly and succeed, this would be it. There were three black female summer associates out of sixty that year but any time all three of us were in an office talking, one of the partners would knock on the door to see how we were doing. It happened too often to be a coincidence that sometimes we would purposely agree to meet in so-and-so's office to test our theory that we were being monitored. Like clock work, ten minutes after we would get together a partner would stop by.
Aggressiveness in Men is Good, in Women its Bitchy
- Workplace Unfairness
- Female
- Caucasian
- Information Technology/Internet
- Non-Profit
- Double Standards
- Stereotyping
I worked for a huge information technology firm where most people were very intelligent. So to get any kind of attention you had to be pushy, aggressive and loud. It was a culture where whoever was the loudest at meetings prevailed. Except that when women were the ones being aggressive and loud, whispers could be heard that she was a bitch or must be suffering PMS.